Special forces questions for me to be!?

There is no way for you to go straight into Special Ops with no experience. And once you actually have some military experience, most likely you not even make selection. If you want to be Special Forces you have to join the Army as infantry 11 series or similar combat MOS, if you want to be a SEAL join the Navy as a diver. All the schools are very long at least 2 years for some schools alone.