Does he value my company or just using me ?

Men don't usually feel like kings when a girl is paying their way. They will use those girls but then they will turn to other girls who don't know their vulnerable side. This guy sounds like he's got some issues that he needs to work out on his own before he will ever be able to handle a gal like you. I hope you will gather your dignity and self-respect and get busy in other ways in life so that the right guy for you will discover you. When somebody shows you who they really are, believe them.